For the love of self

This is for all the ladies out here,the girls,guy girls,bros,homos,guy-girls,lesbos,non binaries,gentlemen,boys,cats,possums,teapots..this list is endless. Whoever you are and/or define yourself as,this is for you, ALL of you..
Respect yourself.

Understand yourself.

Appreciate yourself.

Love yourself and then start the cycle all over again,only do it a little bit more each time.

Why? Well,why the fuck not? I mean,you can’t expect to live this life as a stranger to yourself now can you? 

Precisely my point. And the only way to really truly do any quality living, that cycle 👆up there is definitely the key to it. Then you might ask, ‘how do I respect myself?? Don’t I already do that?’ Well, for the most part a great deal of people think they do but in essence they don’t. You cannot constantly be in bad relationships for great durations that you know are no good yet claim to hold yourself in any regard. Honey,you don’t. Letting another person walk all over you or make you feel any type of wrong way is being unfair to you. 

Take a deep breath and think. Are you worth all that pain? Are you worth more than the pain? Do you deserve to be treated like something precious? Of course you do!! Then why don’t you do that for yourself first then? 

Seriously,do it. Go get that raise you’ve always wanted. Just because you’re new doesn’t mean you’re worth any less. It just means the others got there a little earlier than you.(just be sure you truly work harder and are deserving of it. Can’t have getting any blame dumped of me later) 
Every once in a while,splurge a little. Buy that dress you’ve been eyeing since forever. Go get that massage that you’ve been dying for but have been avoiding since it’s not that necessary. You don’t have the money to burn right?? Well you don’t but I promise you the experience will be well worth it. The money will be the last thing on your mind afterwards and believe it or not,there’s more money in the world to be had. 

See, loving and respecting who you are takes nothing much,just a touch of these once in a million experiences that you gift yourself. They are what make you appreciate and value the you that’s here. It teaches you a lot about yourself in the process and the things you can and will not tolerate in your world be it relationshipwise, financially, mentally,physically..etc. It gives you a wide berth to explore the core of your makeup,the person that is you free of judgement, scrutiny or embarrassment. 

Sounds like the heaven you’ve always heard about right?? Well it is,and its all right at your’s all within you. You just have to be brave enough to dare being alone,wholly alone. It is the most liberating and refreshing thing you could ever do. After all,you spend most of your time with yourself. Why not enjoy your own company right?


Published by: Carlisle

I tend to live in my head a little too much so this is a snippet of the worlds inside me. I only hope it does scare somebody aware. I like to live my fantasies,inspired by my every reality. Enjoy this ride with me. "I like to turn things upside down, to watch pictures and situations from another perspective." Ursus Wehrli

Categories People, Real LessonsTags, , Leave a comment

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s